Dress sharp. Dress fun.

As expected, we've had a number of people ask us about appropriate attire for our wedding. If you're wondering what 'dress sharp. dress fun' means, trust us, you're not alone!

We're neither conventional nor very formal so you shouldn't expect the wedding to be a stiff, black tie gala or anything. While it's a wedding and we ask politely that you treat it as such (garmently speaking), we also encourage you to throw whatever sorta flair into the mix that you feel comfortable with. In other words: your attire should be a reflection of you. (this goes for any day of the year, not just this one...)

Below we've given some examples of "OK" and "not OK." But before we get to that, we also want to address Colors. We've had a few people ask about appropriate colors to which our answer is and always will be: "don't worry about it." Seriously. Wear white if you feel like it. Wear bright pink. Wear neon. Wear colors that match your favorite sports team or college. It's all good. Really. We mean it. When you get to the wedding you'll understand why it doesn't matter. (Or if you know Tamar really well, you'll know why it doesn't matter).

Alright, so here are some examples of stuff that is OK.
First, you can never go wrong with the more traditional stuff...

But if you want to mix it up, here are some "sharp yet fun" examples of stuff that certainly won't be frowned upon...



(michael madsen=always. Chris Penn=never.)


(Better yet, the Bride would like you to actually bring Lily Allen as your guest)


(face it, we all would like to dress like a Bosstone)

In other words...wear what makes you feel fun and comfortable, but you won't embarrass those around you. Or something.

If you're still lost, here are some ideas of things NOT to wear (as if you needed to be told...)


(sigma chi, nerd!)


(yearbook regrets...)


(never mind that the groom looks like this on most days, sans stache)


(If there's such a thing as trying too hard, this is it)


(actually, if you ever look like Fred Durst, you're beyond help)


(gross)



("Hey, Scottie!" / "Yeah?" / "What's it gonna be?" / "One gin and tonic sounds mighty, mighty good to me.")

As always, ask if you're not sure!

55 days...or something.
T&M